'is he/she the one?'
Have you ever come across this question in your life? You assume that in a relationship, you need to know whether he/she is or would be the one in your life. It's really hard to justify though. Although some people might think, the one they have now as their BF/GF is the one, Unless they are really certain of the 'relationship', no one can actually say so.
Regardless of the condition you are in, whether you are 'going' into a relationship, or U are in a relationship..I guess, there will be a time you ask yourself, is he/she the one? And when this strikes you, what would U do? To decide something depending on the answer to this question might sound like a cliche. Though it's hard to be objective, but I guess there are always two sides of a story. You can either go with the flow, and do not worry much about the unpredictable future. Or you can start to think 'logically' to fit the social norm..to be the ideal person. In my opinion, it's the mix of both, which most of the time 'stop' you from moving.
It's either U go with the flow, though there are risks. But at least you don't lose before you try. Or to NOT try, to give and lose before U even try. Coz you are 'resisting' yourself and love to play in your comfort zone. Reluctant to face the fact.
How if you know, he/she is the one for you. Yet you can't do anything about it. Coz the 'uncertainty' and potential 'impossibility'. Should you give up on him/her? Or should you just let it be. And just have faith in him/her. I can't really say that if you say 'Yes, he/she is the one' then you should be able to hang in there. Coz it's hard. Then U think 'so, what's next?' What if he/she isn't thinking the same thing? What I know is that, if everything tells U that he/she is NOT the one..maybe U have to start to let it go and give up on him/her. Yet, if the feeling of 'Yes, he/she is the one' is darn strong, should U not have given up on him/her. Coz your heart tells U so..Is he/she worth it?
:June
Regardless of the condition you are in, whether you are 'going' into a relationship, or U are in a relationship..I guess, there will be a time you ask yourself, is he/she the one? And when this strikes you, what would U do? To decide something depending on the answer to this question might sound like a cliche. Though it's hard to be objective, but I guess there are always two sides of a story. You can either go with the flow, and do not worry much about the unpredictable future. Or you can start to think 'logically' to fit the social norm..to be the ideal person. In my opinion, it's the mix of both, which most of the time 'stop' you from moving.
It's either U go with the flow, though there are risks. But at least you don't lose before you try. Or to NOT try, to give and lose before U even try. Coz you are 'resisting' yourself and love to play in your comfort zone. Reluctant to face the fact.
How if you know, he/she is the one for you. Yet you can't do anything about it. Coz the 'uncertainty' and potential 'impossibility'. Should you give up on him/her? Or should you just let it be. And just have faith in him/her. I can't really say that if you say 'Yes, he/she is the one' then you should be able to hang in there. Coz it's hard. Then U think 'so, what's next?' What if he/she isn't thinking the same thing? What I know is that, if everything tells U that he/she is NOT the one..maybe U have to start to let it go and give up on him/her. Yet, if the feeling of 'Yes, he/she is the one' is darn strong, should U not have given up on him/her. Coz your heart tells U so..Is he/she worth it?
:June
posted by June at 9:15 AM
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